I did not see your follow through but we caught your username that has been mentioned by some other person. You appear to be an individual who takes proper care of her human body (in a fit and healthier means maybe not a vain method), you understand that you are maybe perhaps not fat. You understand that despite having an additional 10lbs you’re not in the end that is upper of’ allow alone overweight. That right here must have had you calling BS on him as he offers that as being a cause for not enough intercourse. Its most likely that the fat gain just isn’t the problem. He might or may well not understand the reason that is real it appears as though his libido isn’t the issue. With you, you can’t even begin to address the problem (as a couple) if he can’t be honest.